HOW TO IMPROVE YOUR PERSONALITY

  HOW TO MAKE YOUR PERSONALITY ATTRACTIVE

People say you have a good personality if they like you. Everyone wants to be liked, but it isn't just limited to looks. Your personality is you; how you feel, think,& behave. You should definitely strengthen and improve your personality, but not just for other's approval. Do it for yourself. Taking care and loving yourself is important to develop a great personality.

Here I have shared the best traits or points you will find in people with an awesome personalities. The tips shared in this article will help you become the best version of yourself. It isn't just about putting up an attractive exterior. You have to maintain your inner beauty to improve your personality.

1. COMMUNICATION SKILLS:-   

Always talk in the language in which you are comfortable. Don't try to talk in English or any other language in which you are not comfortable speaking. Just be what you are don't try to follow the fake standard to show others that you are cool. Just try to be more confident in your own way of talking. For example:- Our Indian Governors never try to talk in English during their speeches they confidently speak in Hindi.

2. POLITNESS:-

Nobody wants to talk yo a person who is rude and talk sefish, don't do that to look cool it just degrade your impression. try to talk in a polite way in a humble way and give respect to the other person.It will definitely make other to think that you are a good person and it makes you look attractive.

If you don't know how to start a conversation? Then the next 3rd point is for you.

3. COMPLIMENT:-

It is a master tip to compliment others there is no one who doesn't like positive vide and good compliment for themselves. But the important point is that there is a difference between giving a compliment to someone or clinging. Just don't over do it a small compliment is enough to spread a positive vibe and starting a conversation. 

4. HANDSHAKES:-

This is one of the most important factor of your over all personality as many of the researches says because:-

• Handshake reflects your confidence.
• Handshake was the first humanly touch when you greet someone. It shows your personality and also gives a positive vibe and spreads good Aura.

Most important point to be remembered during a handshake are:-

Your hand mustn't be loose and do strong and firm handshake but not too strongly and crush other person's hand and always smile during a hand shake is perfect.

More important than your handshake is something that without any conversation reflects your personality is your walking style many interviewers notice it to which is your walk.

5. WALKING STYLE:-

Never walk in an artificial way means broaden your chest, raising your shoulders and pushing your arms outwards don't do these things. The important thing is to walk in a good posture and don't drag your feet while walking.

EXERCISES FOR IMPROVING YOUR POSTURE :-

• Standing Rowing 
  
  
  
• Bridges
  
  
  
• Planks
  
  
  

Your neck and shoulders has to be straight in a line don't bend your back and neck. No hands in pocket it makes your body squeezed and some posture bent. Show a little natural hand swing not like you are walking in a garden just do it in a natural way and your cloths and shoes must have to be of perfect fitting don't wear loose or either tight clothes and shoes as it affects your walk and impression.

WHEN YOUR POSTURE IS PERFECT IT REFLECTS YOUR CONFIDENCE.

6. BODY LANGUAGE :-

Body language is a very important point. People will only attracted towards you and talk to you only if you have a good and positive body language.Nobody wants to talk to a person having a bad body language as body language is also a part of first impression. So it has to be perfect you cant attract peoples if you had a bad body language.

Points to improve your body language :-

• Does not squeeze your body stand comfortably.
• Don't stick your legs leave a little 5-6 inches gap between legs it is called power pose or leader pose it reflects confidence.
• The most important thing is always have a smile on your face that attracts people.An angry and irritated face it will badly degrade your Aura and no one will talk ti you none of the other personality likes that.

7. GESTURE AND NERVOUS HABITS :-

It is also a very important part of your body language it shows that you are expressive and this is the way how you connect to other peoples while talking. 

Thimgs you should avoid :-

• Shaking your legs
• Nails eating 

It reflects your unconfident nature.

Things to improve your Gesture &Nervous Habits :-

• Avoid caffeine and more sugar before important occasion it makes you more anxious.
• Do yoga daily about 15-20min it helps in reducing your anxious nature and increases confidence.
• Mirror practices helps a lot.

8. DON'T REFLECT YOUR WEAKNESSES :-

• Don't being upset over small things.
• Don't get offended too easily.
• Don't get angry on someone criticism if someone criticize you.

Remember that no one is perfect you have to take things positively and patiently.

For example:- Take any good Bollywood actor or any good youtuber like Carryminati asia's biggest youtuber. Nobody gets 100% love by the audience slight hate is present every where anybody who criticize them or hate them they will never show their weakness they won't reply back, won't misbehave that's why they are an attractive personalities. The day they started misbehaving the fanbase will change their favourite actor or youtuber in one minute.

9. DESCENT STYLING :-

Descent styling can also uplift your personality.

• Don't go for costly brands, fancy brands and fancy cloths.
• Just go for a basic outfit that looks classy and evergreen 365days.

Best wears for a descent style :-

1. Madarin shirts with trousers or chinos.
   
   
   
2. Polo t-shirt style.
   
   
   
3. Suspender style.
   
   
   
4. Blazers & t-shirts
   
   
   
5. All black outfits
   
   
   
6. Solid t-shirts & chinos 
   
   
   

And remember one thing that the fitting shouldn't be too tight it has to be a good fit which can make a lot of difference.

10. YOURSELF :-

Taking care of yourself is very important to improve your  personality that means your skin, hair & fitness but it's important to make a balance and realistic goals with the peoples with whom you compare your skin or body they earn from that thing on the internet. But you have to take part in competitions exams like JEE and  NEET e.t.c. so you have to complete your goles with that, you can give 40-45 minutes to your realistic goals when you get success, your goals get complete than a decent body and skin with it, is a better combination. You have your own goles of saving time and money also you have to take care of yourself.

For your skin use simple herbal facewash or either use face pack. You can make a face pack at home by your selfand use that.

Ingredients for the face pack :-

• 2 tablespoon tomato puree
• 2 tablespoon yogart 
• 3 tablespoon besan (geam flour)

For hair oil them twice in a week and use another hair pack which will make your hair stronger, thicker and also reduce hair fall.

  Ingredients for hair pack :-

• 3 Tablespoon fenugreek powder (methi dana)
• 2 Tablespoon yogart
• 1 Tablespoon oil (any hair oil, mustard oil )

11. ACTIVE PRSONALITY :-

Nobody likes a lazy personality, everyone likes an active and charismatic personality.

So you have to avoid these food for laziness :-

• Breakfast cereals
• Sugar drinks
• Alcohols
• Sweets
• Paranthe
• Fried food
• Full fat drinks

11. BE LIKE YOUR PARENTS GENERATION :-

That is the personality we want to be because they used to support from heart, they were supportive. Bonds were strong in that generation our generation fights too quickly, different words on someone's back.

So if you just focus on looks or just to attract people from looks that personality won't last long.

:- What stays for long term and who is remembered in happiness and sorrow?

> Is the genuine friend so only then the personality will connect to you when you genuinely help someone and support. But not with everyone be with few people but be supportive that is the personality people want to connect with.

13. KNOWLEDGE :-

Gaining knowledge on daily basis can improve you personality. It's not about the books degree it's about you're improving your knowledge in your area of interest or your circle i.e. Gamer, Stock-marketing, Fashion related e.t.c. in anything just you have to improve you confidence there. For that you can read articles on the websites over internet on a daily basis you'll be able to speak more, if you don't have any knowledge than you won't be able to speak and show lack of confidence. 

So, more knowledge is equal to good confidence which is equal to an attractive personality.

So there are some important points on how to stand out, develop and improve your personality.

I HOPE THIS ARTICLE WILL HELP YOU TO IMPROVE YOUR PERSONALITY AND THANKYOU FOR READING IT TILL THE END.